4 Things You Didn’t Know About The Clitoris

Last week I assisted at a female orgasm workshop! Say what?! No hands-on action of course (it wasn't called lesbian orgy workshop... save that for later) but it was ENLIGHTENING to say the least!Because we can never learn enough about cumming or making our partner cum, I thought I'd share a few insights with you. You're welcum. Or your girl is welcum.

My Clit Has Legs!

4 Orgasmic Take-Aways

The Internal Clitoris

The clitoris is SO MUCH MORE and so much larger than its external "button," also called the clitoral glans (see image above.)

The shaft connects internally to “legs” that wrap around the lips/labia. When a woman is aroused, this erectile tissue doubles in size (basically like a female erection!) which also tightens the vaginal walls. In short: if she's properly aroused sex will feel way more intense for both!
So you might want to spend some time on stimulating the entire area... and by some time I mean A LOT of time - at the workshop they were talking about 45min of foreplay before penetration should happen... Drink up! lol 

Mind-Fuck

Fun fact: the orgasm actually happens in her brain! It's not really a genital event, it's a mental one. (When she has an orgasm the area of her brain associated with pleasure and memory become active.)

Moral of the story? Invest some quality time in exploring fantasies, desires and play with yourself and/or your partner even before you get to "bed." No-brainer, really.

Waving/Edging

The female orgasm is more complex than its male counter-part, which shouldn't be a great surprise to most. It doesn't function like a male climax, with one peak and a valley (even though it can sometimes...I said complex...)
Women often "wave," which means they have many consecutive orgasms, some smaller, some more explosive. It's all about the journey not the destination, peeps.
"Edging" is based on a Tantra technique and basically means you back-off before you climax, again and again, to intensify the pleasure. Read more on it here.

Talk To The Pussy

"What's happening lil P? You thirsty?"
It's all about building a relationship between your brain and your pussy to understand your own arousal. What do you need to relax or get excited? The nervous system responds to what it's offered and - I found this particularly interesting - women in general are more responsive than initiative. Not always of course (I'm definitely both...)